A lot of Nigerian men in the diaspora return to Nigeria to search for partners and most times end up actualising their dream search....They meet,they marry and they return.
I live in the diaspora and i know for sure that a lot of the Nigerian men here have partners that their Nigerian based wives know nothing about.
Most of them marry these women and leave them back home in Nigeria to attend to the Nigerian end........that sucks!
I got contacted on facebook late last year by a lady who works in a bank,she wanted me to help her find her husband whom she last heard from two years ago,they have a child together.
she gave me the name and i searched for the man...he lives in another big city not too far from mine...my findings revealed he is happily married here.
I didn't get back to the lady because i was really sad for her.
This is a memo to ladies out there who think Marrying a Nigerian man in the diaspora is a ladder to greener pasture or a visa to the white man's land.
Do not marry in absentia.
If he tells you all the reasons he will not take you back to his base with him,dust your shoes and run,do not marry him.
Nigerian men in the diaspora suck and you will end up with a broken heart and children whose father will not be there for them!
If you are a wife whose husband lives in the diaspora,please tell us your experience. and how often you get to see him.
If you are a Nigerian man in the disapora,tell us why......
This article is my opinion and based on what i have seen and heard....you think i am wrong,please present your facts,if this steps on your toes,ho please forgive 'naive' me.
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